The end of my first day sees me sat on the bed with my midwifery
travelling companions, Sarah and Stevie, listening to the replay of a radio 4
play, drinking a long G&T, and catching up on lap tops. It’s 9.30 pm, we’re
well fed and still acclimatising to the time change and slight altitude
difference. The guest house we’re using this year is one of a circle of
traditional homes surrounding a beautiful Buddhist Stupa.
This year, I plan to provide a daily blog of our events here
in Nepal. Let’s see how it goes. I’m a little concerned that after a long and
very stimulating day (...and maybe a strong, long ‘refreshment’), I may not be too
thoughtful or diplomatic how I replay events in my mind. But it might be an
interesting and possibly more honest reflection of my time here. We’ll see....
The going has been slow today. It’s Holi. No wild and
raucous celebrating in the Durbar Square this year, though. Corona Virus is in
everyone’s thoughts and large gatherings, albeit outside in open air, have
already been cancelled (To date, there has been just one official case of
C-Virus.....really? How has Kathmandu contained that one case?)
We’ve collected our bought and donated equipment together in
one corner of the room. Where we will distribute it, remains to be decided. We
have a large stack of gifted books (thank you lovely midwifes for your precious
gifts), a few of them brand new to join with a small stack of books already
here. With the equipment, is a box of essential oils (thank you, friend, for
your coincidental gift of money to pay for this), in enough quantity to keep a
birth centre going for a while. We’ll aim to provide a short workshop so that
the midwives will use them with respect and with a bit of knowledge.
Patan has changed, even within the year we were last here.
There are buildings being re-built after the 2015 earthquake. These multi-story
red brick and timber homes will have been left standing (many were not), but
now have massive cracks causing instability. It’s heaven sent to see the houses
are being replaced with new traditional woodwork and the same red bricks.
Thamel is known to be the place for tourists and shops and restaurants. But if
you want to feels the essence of a real and beautifully authentic Nepal, it’s
Patan you need to check out.
Tomorrow looked to be a day of visiting the Midwifery office
of MIDSON, and catching up on events and achievements, and making plans for our
stay. A couple of times, eager to plan things and not miss a moment of
opportunity to share learning and skills, I’ve made efforts to organise things. It
doesn’t work for people here. Although we in UK need at least 28 days to
arrange anything at all, Nepalis manage with a moment’s notice, and change
plans with acceptance and even a small element of... eagerness.
Things, however, can be lost in translation. We read a request
to share a week of our time with some first and second year midwifery students, who've not received support from any international midwives, to be a simple
matter of hopping onto a local bus to the college campus. On reflection, it
possibly entails an expensive flight (£243 each) out of the valley to stay in
Jumla for the duration. Our accommodation here in Kathmandu is already paid for, and
we’ll be paying for more accommodation in Jumla. We're not in a position to afford this.
But these midwifery students
haven’t had the input they deserve because they’re not in the Kathmandu
valley. That just doesn't seem fair. And what's more, these remote areas are the places that need the midwifery support most.
I wonder if we can find the funding.....
A big concern to go to bed with.
Lovely to see the blog and get a feel for the excellent work you are doing
ReplyDeleteThank you, Sarah. It's been a whirlwind of a day. Let's see if I can come up with the goods tonight.....x
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